This week, we asked Ceejay and Karen – Do you think it’s possible for a guy or girl to fall in love with someone he or she hasn’t met in person yet? He says… “Falling in love” is such a strong phrase. And for me, the only time I can say that I’ve fallen deeply is when I’ve shared hundreds of days, thousands of minutes and millions of seconds with her, because for me, “love” is a feeling that exceeds friendship. You can never love a person with no blood relation if you didn’t start as friends. And friendship is built through frequent communication, seeing each other through joys and sorrows, and building a circle of trust. Many will ask, how about love at first sight? Well I don’t believe in that, too. This is what you call infatuation where only the physical appearance matters. Loving is about accepting the whole person, regardless of the appearance. What’s important is that you have built a bridge of comfort with each other. And that is developed with time, effort and togetherness. - Ceejay (SOO_REAL) She says… For me it depends on the situation, but generally nowadays, it is possible to happen. But for me it’s better to meet her or him personally. Otherwise try not to fall in love. Because for me, I need to really know someone before I can say I’m in love. But it’s up to you if you fall in love with her. You can try, if it works, its good but in the end kasi, kadalasan, karamihan sa ganun situation lalo na kapag u never meet her or him personally, naghihiwalay din. - Karen (HAUZMAID) HE SAYS, SHE SAYS is a weekly Rehab relationship blog that provides a glimpse of the male and female perspective regarding topics involving love, friendship and family. However, comments and ideas on this blog are our bloggers’ personal opinion and do not in any way reflect the general sentiment of the male/female population. So, feel free to react, agree or even disagree by leaving comments on this post. |